When Mother’s Day is hard

When Mother’s Day is hard

Mother’s Day is marketed as a day for us to honour the role our mother plays in our lives and family.  It celebrates the mother as someone who is nurturing, caring, selfless and someone who protects and provides for their children no matter what.  She is attuned to...
The cost of keeping secrets

The cost of keeping secrets

One of my most important parts of what I do is allowing someone to tell their story and to be heard.  Often, I find myself asking a question to clarify something, only for the person to pause.  This is then followed by “Well I haven’t told anyone this but….”. During...
How to manage your critical voice

How to manage your critical voice

I have recently binge watched “Couple’s Therapy”, a real-life documentary, charting the path of four couples in counselling.  I was absolutely hooked, curious to see how their stories would unfold. Each episode shows how Dr Orna Guralnik, a Clinical Psychologist and...
A tour of my counselling room

A tour of my counselling room

When you first come to counselling, so many things may be going through your mind. What will the counsellor be like? How do I get to the counselling session? Where is it? Where will I park? What will the room look like? Join me as I take you on a tour of my home-based...